Pride

Learning about pride this week couldn’t have come at a better time for me.  As I was studying the talk, Beware of Pride, from Ezra Taft Benson, there were multiple times where I found myself reflecting on my own life and the thoughts I have towards others.  Towards the beginning of the talk, Ezra Taft Benson said, “The central feature of pride is enmity—enmity toward God and enmity toward our fellowmen. Enmity means “hatred toward, hostility to, or a state of opposition.”  It is the power by which Satan wishes to reign over us.”  This quote really hit me.  I find myself looking through social media seeing posts from my friends and all I can think about is how I’m jealous of the things they have.  I had a plan for my life when I was in high school, and let’s just say that that plan hasn’t exactly come to pass.  I’m happy most of the time, but there are times when I let my pride get the best of me and I become an angry, bitter person.  When I notice myself going down the destructive path of self-comparison, I try to turn to God for strength to overcome that pride.  I loved the quote from Drawing Heaven into Your Marriage where Goddard said,

“the quality of emotions we experience is different when we are faithful and humble as compared to when we live without faith and with the kind of arrogance that makes us independent of God." Turning to God in faith and repentance is the cure for pride and self-centeredness.” 

It is so important to turn to God rather than feeling like we don’t need him.  It is absolutely necessary in marriage to turn to God when you are going through difficult times rather than be arrogant and feel like you don’t need his help.  I also loved where President Benson said, “Pride is a sin that can readily be seen in other but is rarely admitted in ourselves.”  It is so easy to point out the mistakes of others, but much harder to accept criticism and correction from others.  I am so grateful for the gospel and for the incredible gift of the atonement that allows us to receive the strength we need to overcome our weaknesses. I know that when we are humble and willing to turn to Christ, we will be much happier.  I loved what Goddard had to say about humility and repentance.  He said,

“Many of us grew up dreading humility and repentance. They felt like an unhappy encounter with humiliation. But, as we mature spiritually, we come to recognize humility and repentance as heavenly blessings. We cast off the tattered ways of the natural man and put on the robe of righteousness. It is sweet.”